my gf of nearly three years broke up with me three months ago, at the time I didn't really feel it. I was super stressed and busy and worried with my academics. Some important exams were soon and they would dictate a lot of my future. In my mind I didn't have enough space for the emotional energy to feel sad. I passed all exams two months and now it all starts crashing down and becoming real in my mind. Three years, that was the longest relationship I have ever been in. Now that I am back at uni after the break it all feels surreal, the happiness of passing with good grades has faded, life has returned to normal and I miss her more than ever, I keep telling myself that there was noting I could do to make her stay and that it is for the best. How do I get over her? I don't want to forget, I just want to stop thinking about her so much. It ruins happy moments when the feelings come creeping in. How do you deal with breakup when you are emotionally retarded?